crazy things we do to heal

im heading to new york in august for a couple of weeks of nothing and to do some yoga studio research catch up with a mate or two but mostly to find my independance again. i know i will be ok because i have made it thru this type of thing before.... this being a relationship that had most of the right ingredients that was possible that was tainted with mistrust... but purely the experience of being with a person who wont own their own behaviour... i stayed for so long because i thought it was me that also needed to change. maybe in bit i did but not to the degree that our whole relationship demanded.